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Sunday, June 7, 2020

Infatuation among the youth can prove detrimental: Eijaz Mir

"Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, but bears it out, even to the edge of doom." William Shakespare


Eijaz Mir
Love is not love that alters or changes. It is an unbound relationship that senses no change even if your beauty vanishes away. There is no change in your thoughts, visions and feelings. Love is not love that demands you something to give or to favour you. It is an unexpected and unending beautiful relationship between souls. It is an inspirational joy of.
It is a relationship of sound and pious feelings. It is a magical feeling which gives you the feel of flying in the high sky. It is a magical care to which you respond magically. Love is sacred feeling that exhibits sense of humour, joy, and unending care among people.
It is the feel that remains with you forever. It is that sort of energy which never demands any relaxation. It is growing on every single passing day. It is that passion which never decreases or declines. This passion is strong and it’s bond of affection never let you come down. On every single passing day love provides us with a sense of security, where we feel that we are safe. Love gives us unending happiness and we feel better under its umbrage. Love is life and life is love.
Since time immemorial, we have heard infinite love stories of fictional legendary heroes. These fictions, fables and tales of many such people are available to us in the form of fictional books and videos. Such immense and countless love stories are day to day part and parcel of many lives among us.
Such fictional characters are available to us in various forms. We are witnessing them in various forms of fictional texts and videos. In the form of such available characters, we have heard love stories of Heer Ranja, Laila Majnu, Sheeri Farhat etc.
When we read them in the books or see them in live pictures, we surely get emotional or dry eyes get wet. The trails and tests of love they passed through is really heart touching as well as heart wrenching. These all fictional based love stories have serious as well as emotional impacts on our practical lives. These infinite imaginable pictures engulfed with fictional characters have severe impacts on our lives. We find ourselves somewhere in these fictions. While going through these fake love stories, we start to feel like them, talk like them, eat like them and finally we start to act like them. Such fictional characters leave unimaginable and severe impact on our mindsets also. And we start to feel these fictional characters in our practical lives.
In reality or practicality, we could never live in fictional obsession. Life is rational and it is lived up with radical changes. And change is itself the law of nature. If we thought we live on the ways and means of imagination. It is not possible, as we live in real world and real nature.
Our life is rational and practical where imagination is only a concept and if we want to survive, we have to live up within the reality. These fictional love characters we read or see is also an imagination and if we start to live and feel like them.
We will upset our emotions and our rational thinking as well as our character will become a heavy burden for us. We can never imagine the reality of lives until we know how to live in reality rather than in imagination. So is the reality of our characters. The love stories which we read in books or see in films are totally different from reality.
A common person who tries to copy such characters in real lives is not less than a fool. The fake love stories which we follow and adopt for us in our real lives are not less than a state of mental unsoundness. Such fake love stories could never be our reality and those fictional characters could never be our role models.
Our reality of self consciousnesses is beyond these fake love stories. As cultured human beings we should never fall prey of them. But the way how we are following blindly their footsteps is not less than a disaster in making.
The fake love which we are following blindly is taking toll of lives. We see innumerable suicides, murders, rapes and other evils in the name of fake love. Fake love always ends up up with a disaster. Nowadays, the love we believe on is only a lust and sexual desire. We have named our lust as love story.
The sexual orientation is being given the name of pious love and sacred affection. In other words, I may strongly condemn the way our young girls and boys are going through sexual assaults and harassments in the name of love. The way we witness the sexual harassments of girls on every single passing day in the name of fake love is enough to understand this kind of relationship.
What we call love is not love, where the only aim of your life sustains on satisfaction of sexual desires. This fake love is the preparation of the hell fire for us. It is not only girls who fall victims of fake love stories. But sometimes, its prey is also innocent young boys. In the name of love, such innocent young boys also lose their educational opportunities and careers forever.
To be honest, I have seen many young boys who are very close to me indulging in such practices and finally they were deceived by their so called ‘princesses’. This is what we all have in the name of fake love. This fake love has detrimental effects on us. Millions of boys and girls have fallen prey to this menace. The hundreds and thousands of families have lost their sons and daughters in the name of this fake relationship.
People have their own views and opinions regarding love affairs and relationships. I am not insisting anybody to compromise with my view point. Everyone is free to occupy his own thinking about this affair.
But in my opinion, the modern young boys and girls who claim to be love with each other, the result of their love stories is unfortunate to say that they end up with lusts and sexual desires and the consequences of such relationship ends up with a disaster.
In the past we have witnessed many such episodes where many people lost their lives in the name of this fake relationship. These fake love stories have made people insane. They have become drug peddlers. They have put their lives at huge risks by consuming harmful drugs.
Some have become mentally unsound. I have myself seen such talented youth who were brilliant in their studies. But once they start this kind of relationship. They end up with such a disaster which was beyond their control. Their lives become hell and they lost their sense of rational thoughts. They became paralyzed. Their level of intelligent quotient vanished and deteriorated forever. They looked like duffers. This is all because of fake love. At present, the boys and girls of the whole world are suffering from the same disease. I call it disease because when we fall in this illegal sort of affair, its end displays us dreadful results and consequences not less than a severe disease.
Think for a while, when we have our own family to love and be loved. But we choose an unknown girl or boy for it. Isn’t this a mere lust rather than love or affection?
On one hand, our parents need our love and care. But we try to give it to any unknown person who even doesn’t deserve it. The lust which we are living with is a serious concern. If it continues, the social system and discipline of our society will come on severe drawbacks.
The fake love have deteriorated and mutilated the good characters of good people. Living with such a relationship will turn us into wild animals. The world in which we are living will become a jungle, a forest where only wild animals will survive. Such kind of growing menace is surely a catastrophe in the making. This fake relationship will prove hazardous to our upcoming generations and will make us uncivilised.
If we want to free our society from many evils, then we should stop people indulging in such affairs. Stop your youths to fall prey of fake love stories. It is our moral responsibility to enlighten them with morality and ethics. They should be motivated by imparting them with religious knowledge based on true principles and purposes of real life.
There is a huge difference between love and lust. Please think rationally, “Love is not love which finds alteration”.

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